How not to be heard often times comes down to saying what everyone else is saying with the same volume and the same oversaturated vibes. Lose the oversaturated to be heard over the harmony of similar talk and the toxic communication and messaging.
Before that post, that pitch or that solicitation, take a moment to search the words or the phrases you want to use. While it may be true to your heart and your message, it could sound like a message that has been heard all too often, which unfortunately is a big way in how not to be heard these days.
Work on honing your message to get it across with authority and authenticity while standing out from others. Take the time to check the volumes of your words so the tone can be heard and not dismissed. From tone to volume to the tempo and the words you use, take the time to create the message that can stand up and stand out from others.